Program Details
The Intentional Autonomous Relating (IAR, or Intentional Relating, for short) program is designed to help anyone to achieve a massive level-up and personal breakthrough for their own relationship experience and relating skills in all areas of life: romance, friendships, business, and family. This program includes a mix of standardized and personalized elements with a focus on the specific needs and objectives of each client. Based on the selected program length and an initial assessment, goals will be tailored to achieve the best outcomes within the scope of the container.
Key Program Outcomes
Overall, the goal of the program is to help every client achieve dramatic improvement in the realms of relationship communication, clarity, harmony, stability, balance, and mutual fulfillment. As a typical experience, clients can expect to make significant gains in one, several, or all the following areas:
Clarity of needs, desires and intentions.
Ability to self-assess and discover one’s own deeper needs and desires which drive relationship tension or evolution, and frame one’s own intentions with clarity.
Mastery of productive communication.
Ability to shift naturally into various communication modes and styles which allow for effective connection and dialogue toward fruitful mutual exchanges.
Mastery of healthy boundaries and agreements.
Ability to re-orient to one’s own experience and the present, empathetically set constructive boundaries, and cultivate mutually stabilizing agreements.
Reduced co-dependency and conflict.
Replace ambiguity, uncertainty, dependency and fear with clarity, deeper bonding, mutual satisfaction, and fun while enjoying individual and shared growth.
Typical Program Flow
Discovery and Evaluation
- 1–2 sessions: state evaluation, objectives, rough schedule
- Self-paced materials/surveys to maximize live session time
Power Activation Cycle
- Interactive Sessions (In-Person or Remote)
- Teaching
- Coaching
- Consulting
- Co-Play
- Notes & Home Play in Client Portal
- Self-paced resources & async updates between sessions
- Facilitator reviews & adapts plan for next session
Review and Closeout
- 1–2 sessions: review progress, re-evaluate, and closeout
- Final report with next-step recommendations
Key Program Features
Teaching
Teaching is included as a standard feature of the Intentional Relating program, with the following topics considered essential elements to provide a baseline for healthy relationships. Each client will have the opportunity to learn and practice these foundational systems and frameworks throughout the container and these will be adapted to the length of the program and the starting point of the individual.
- Foundational Communication
- Foundational Psychology
- The Intentional Autonomous Relating Method
- Personal Development and Introspection Tools
- Conflict Resolution and Negotiation
Coaching
In combination with Teaching, Coaching provides a feedback loop to integrate the new patterns and frameworks of healthy relating as a lifestyle. After the initial assessment of current state and future goals, each aspect of Teaching is integrated with a cycle of evaluation, advisement, practice, and reporting to support all aspects of improvement in the following areas.
- Self-Awareness
- Emotional Regulation
- Communication
- Negotiation
- Care and Nurturing
- Growth and Play
Consulting
As a key differentiator of Intentional Relating compared to traditional relationship counseling or therapy, iEvolve Life takes a hands-on and problem-solving focused approach to achieving rapid and lasting improvement in relationships of all types. Consulting can take the form of facilitation to help clear internal blocks and obstacles (Transformation Games) for one or more individuals in relationship, assisting with facilitated conversations or problem-solving exercises, and providing any/all of the relationship partners with direct helping-hand guidance in the practice of the techniques, processes, and methodologies of the program.
- Needs Assessments
- General and Specific Intentions Processes
- Conditions, Boundaries, and Agreements Structure
- Guided Conversations
- Conflict Resolution
- Values and Vision Alignment
Accountability
Intentional Relating includes a personal portal for clients to interact with their facilitator (and partner, if applicable) for the duration of the program. In addition to live teaching, coaching, and consulting sessions, the client portal provides asynchronous communication and a point of accountability to help maintain progress on goals and objectives. After each session, and throughout the program, clients have real time access to their personal (secure, confidential) notes, supporting documents and resources, and ongoing “Home Play” opportunities provided and reviewed by the facilitator.
- Private Chat
- Resources Library
- Virtual Private Notebook
- Virtual Private Whiteboard
- Client Planner (Home Play Tracking)
- Previous Session Recordings and Transcripts (When Appropriate)
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